Friday, July 27, 2007

The Art of the 30 second conversation

Hello everyone,
Well, it is Friday night in Calgary (July 27, 2007) and I have one final thought on Winnipeg and this thought has only been confirmed in Calgary. Somewhere along the way I have developed what I now considered the annoying habit of having 30 second conversations with people in Toronto. While we were in Winnipeg we were buying a lottery ticket (I didn't win) and if you think about it...think of how many conversations we have with people and it is a 30 second conversation. When it goes longer than that...my body motion starts to walk away. Why is that? I then stutter step back to the person who is still wanting to converse with me. They are not rushing off anywhere...why am I? This happened while I was buying my losing lottery ticket. In Toronto, this usually takes 30 seconds...in Winnipeg it took 3 minutes and while I was buying the ticket the lady and I (who I was buying it from) not only found out a little about each other but we had also decided that Paris Hilton (at that time) should remain in jail.
I found that the same is happening in Calgary. People actually stop to talk to each other. We used to do that in Toronto but I can only speak for myself...I don't anymore but I am going to start. So if you are behind me at Tim Horton's or at the bank I will speak WITH the person on the other side of the counter. Visa versa if I am behind you in line and you are doing this...I will be much more patient (or try). We do this in the rest of the country, I can do it in Toronto. It is a special gift the people of Manitoba and Alberta have...I wonder where I lost it but I will find it again.
Thanks Manitoba and Alberta for teaching me this....it is a gift we have as Canadians. This trip only gets better and better.
With love and thanks,
M.J.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

MJ...Good for you...Even when you are totally run off your feet, looking your 'server' in the eye with a smile and asking them sincerely how they are, will make their day, as they are totally invisible to most customers. Doesn't take much. Why is it people have more time and are friendlier on the East and West Coasts of this great country? We need to do our part to improve this in rat-race Ontario.
Love, Sylvia